Sharing, Caring, Boom!

Sometimes it's good to share your thoughts, experiences, and encounters with others; other times, not so much. You know when you were little and you would show your parents something just to show them and let them know you thought it was cool, and your parents immediately said, "I'm not buying it." And you would get so frustrated because you didn't even ask for it, you were just showing them, and here they come with the same story of "I'm not buying it, when you hadn't even asked. This is how I feel when I share things with others sometimes. Like they just killed by joy, rained on my parade, or just didn't want me to be excited about whatever I was sharing. Period. 

I'm a person that likes to be appreciated, needed, and loved by the people active in my life. I like to make memories, be there for them, and have stories to tell. I am headstrong, opinionated, and outspoken, but I'm also, loving, caring, and loyal til the end. We live in a world that can be rough, mean, and apathetic about others; it's pretty much the norm, sadly. And when I feel like I can't express myself freely without some comment afterwards that brings me down, it's tough to answer the question, "what's wrong? Are you okay?" Because somehow I almost always end up feeling like I'm wrong for thinking a certain way or for even daring to say anything at all.

For those that know me, they know I have balls, big ones at that, or if you want, guts. I have guts. But that's not the easiest thing either. When I'm quiet, that can be very dangerous. More dangerous than talking nonstop. It's tough being me. It's a 24/7 job that I love because it's Ary, it's me. But who says that being yourself is easy? Sometimes I can't even handle myself (and am eternally grateful for those that tolerate me when they absolutely don't have to!)! Point is that when I share something with you, try to lift me up....unless I'm being STUPID then just shut it down! 

This life is a tough, beautiful, hot, sexy mess! Yes! And I'm trying to live everyone of my days with strength, passion, grandeur, class, sass, a tear or two, and much needed ambition! To do that, I think we all need to stop raining on each other's parades. That might be a hard one, cause some people are just annoying, but any who, I'm all for it! Don't rain on my parade unless you want me to rain on yours. Simple as that. Haters gonna hate! But I just love, love, love!